Self Esteem Nonsense
Self-esteem is one of the oddest, most misguided and even dangerous ideas to emerge from the 20th century. It is also one of the most durable. Originally an emanation of 1970s California counterculture, self-esteem has achieved the ultimate status for any idea: it has become common sense. Searching through The Times over recent years, you can find hundreds of people talking about their self-esteem: teachers, parents, actors, writers. Since its 1990s heyday self-esteem has been referred to thousands of times in parliament, usually as a sort of abstract, unimpeachable moral good, the same way Victorian politicians once talked about piety. This is a sign of its impeccable establishment status. Indeed, presumably because of the way it was pressed on to my generation in childhood, self-esteem is enjoying a second flowering in the guise of related concepts such as "self-care", "self-cherishing". "self-acceptance" and "self-compassion". But you don...